The Pitfalls For Men in Internet Dating and Your Need For Caution

It is really quite easy to join a dating site and grab a very pretty picture post it online and fill out some details that will attract a single man enough to make contact with you. It is very simple to do this and to a person that wants to earn a living by deception, there exist many honest lonely souls out there that can be sucked in by these professionals. Read on.

Many dating sites do not allow you to share your personal details when you are on the so called free trial period with another person. Not only that but there exist dating sites that won’t even allow you to share your details with a non paying member even when you have paid a membership fee.

The ladies that want to scam a man, most often do not make the investment to join a dating agency and they are just there to ply their trade. Of course a stunning photo is a real attraction to every sort of male that I know, and yet in reality all it is, is a stunning photo and nothing else. Till you meet that person in the flesh all it is, is an illusion of what might be.

Just as easy as it is to get a stunning picture and scam a man, so too is it easy for a lady not to post a photo of herself in the hopes that you will fall in love with her before you can really see a picture of her. A lady that is like this also can run a good scam on a mans heart and when he finally sees the picture can find that he is not attracted in any way to this lady in the physical realm.

Just as easy as it is to have a fake picture, so too, it is easy to design well crafted descriptions of the sort of person that you are. This can be as simple as going through other profiles and simply picking all the good parts of them. People’s words and peoples actions are two different things. Words on a page are simply just words on a page. That is all that they are and you have no real evidence that they were even written by the person concerned.

Even if you meet a lady and she has said all the right things and she looks the part, it takes real time to get to know a person. Many a person has committed to marriage and simply ended up marrying real trouble and had a disastrous marriage. You have to know that people always put their best foot forward and play a game of pretend. Many married couples don’t even share the truth with their spouse as they feel the truth would see them lose them.

Therefore there exist many scams and pitfalls that can come upon a man in the dating scene.

If a lady wants money so she can purchase airline tickets to come and see you and be with you, please I beg of you men, spend the extra money to fly to her country and meet her before you commit to paying for her airfare. I have had a lady spend a good 15 to 20 hours trying to get me to agree to pay for her airfare. The only thing that I feel really saved me was the fact that I had no money in the bank and the fact that the next $700 I am saving has already got a purpose for me to do a trip to the USA in order to do ministry over there.

The Internet can be used for great evil.

Please proceed with caution.